Gender and Sexual Identity

Depending on the country, gender norms and customs could be very different than we are used to here in the United States. Some countries have more relaxed customs and laws toward gender and sexual identity and relationships, while others are more strict. Even small things such as making eye contact or smiling at strangers can carry different meanings in a different cultural context. Researching and paying attention to gender roles in a country is a good first step toward ensuring your safety while abroad. For example, if people dress more conservatively in the country you are travelling to, it’s a good idea to follow their lead, especially during the first few weeks after you arrive. For women, dressing like a local can help reduce unwanted attention or “cat-calling”.

LGBTQIA+ Students Abroad

Students who identify as LGBTQIA+ may travel to cultures with varying levels of tolerance of such expression. In some countries, same-sex behaviors are illegal and carry punishments. When reading about your host nation, consider the laws and cultural attitudes toward LGBTQIA+ travelers and ask yourself these questions:

  • How open will I be about my sexual orientation and gender identity with my teachers, peers, friends, host family and others?
  • How will I make connections with other sexual minority students, local residents, or community organizations and gathering places?
  • What resources are available in my host country for sexual minority people?
  • Are there any LBGTQIA+friendly establishments nearby? How can I find them?
  • What are my safety needs and perceptions, and how can they best be met? Is the program able to make special accommodations for students who request single rooms, private restrooms or certain roommates?
  • Will I need access to any special medications, supplies or services? Are they available in my host country? If not, will I need any additional documentation to travel with my medication or supplies?

No matter whether you go abroad or remain in Kansas, you may contact the Spectrum Center at any time for advice, guidance and support. As always, you may contact your Education Abroad Advisor for more information about LGBTQIA+ attitudes abroad.

Safety

Just like here in Manhattan, students should take personal safety precautions while abroad. Whether a country is more restrictive or permissive than the U.S., you should always research the laws of the host country and be prepared. There are simple steps you can take to ensure you have a safe and fun time abroad.

  • When going out, always make sure you’re going with at least one friend that you know.
  • Don’t accept drinks from strangers.
  • Don’t carry your passport with you unless it is absolutely necessary.

Unfortunately, gender violence is a global issue. If an incident should occur (such as sexual assault), go to the hospital and call the local police. You can also contact the K-State CARE Office for support even while you are abroad. Lastly, check with your host program when you arrive for safety advice and cultural norms.

Resources beyond K-State

You can access a lot of information about your host nation's attitudes toward LGBTQIA+ travelers online. For some general information, check out Wikitravel. At local bookstores you may also find travel guides that often include information geared toward LGBTIA+ travelers. The following resources may also be of assistance as you are researching a country or planning your time abroad: