Effective limits are important. Because once you set a limit, you will have to enforce them when children challenge you by disobeying. So because it is a line in the sand, a limit should be worth something. For example, can you think of a limit that would protect your child’s life?
Expecting a preschooler to stay away from a hot stove or a young adolescent to properly drive a car are limits that ensure personal safety.
❦ Reserve your limits to important matters
Are there other kinds of important limits?