Whose influence do you listen to?
You are the most important person to consider in making the decision to become a dad. You might be getting pressure from many sources: your partner, your parents, and her parents. Of course, your partner is important. She might see qualities of fatherhood in you that you may be overlooking. She may feel confident in your ability to be a good dad. These are important factors in making a decision. But the decision is so important and life-changing that only you can make the final choice.
Deciding not to be a dad could open you up to criticism from family members. If you believe in your heart that waiting (or never having children) is the right decision for you, then making that commitment to not being a father can be a wise decision. But make the decision pro or con based on the best information you can. That’s what I hope this course does for you.