In a normal circumstance making a good decision means making an assessment of benefits and risks. Are the benefits worth the risks and costs? In this case, the benefits of having a child and the probability of some of the risks cannot be determined with certainty. So you are entering uncharted land with the first child. No wonder so many dads and moms are anxious about becoming parents.
No one can assure you that having a child will be wonderful or that you will never regret not becoming a father. The purpose of this course is to lay out the critical issues involved in becoming a father. You have to process that pros and cons and make the decision yourself.