Transitional
Keys
Sherman, A. &
Weiner, M. (2004). Transitional Keys, A Guidebook: Rituals to Improve
Quality of Life for Older Adults. Dobb Ferry, N.Y.: Transitional Keys.
Andrea Sherman, Ph.D., gerontologist,
was inspired by the work of anthropologist Barbara Myerhoff, Ph.D. to
develop Transitional Keys as a way to instill the benefits of ritual
into the care of elders. Americans, particularly elder Americans feel
change as loss. American society has few socially sanctioned rituals
to mark the transitions people experience as they age. The Transitional
Keys technique brings ritual for elders into a variety of care giving
settings and can be used by family members as well as by caregivers.
Sherman, who is project director
for the Consortium of New York Geriatric Education Centers at New York
University, Division of Nursing, explains that there are many socially
accepted rituals for the first half of life but too few for the second
half: "At a time when we could use them, we don't have them. In
the first half we have pregnancy, birth, christenings, and weddings.
What is there between retirement and funerals for an elder? Not much.
There are so many traumatic events, and no way to acknowledge them.
Yet there are so many turning points: menopause, retirement, losing
a driver's license, moving into a different living situation, losing
a spouse, losing friends-it's huge."
The guidebook divides rituals into celebrations, turning points and
loss. The program encompasses learning about ritual tools and techniques,
"how you do it and what you need to do it," said Sherman.
The book aims to bring elders personal acknowledgment and connection
to community at times of transition and great change. It is a restorative
way to meet the challenges of daily life. The book offers guidelines
for using symbols and senses, such as the sound of music or the sight
and touch of familiar objects, to mark rites of passage. Chapters include
reminiscence and life review; rituals for moving; blessing the room
of a new residence; rituals for activities of daily living; welcoming
rituals; using cultural and religious beliefs and symbols; creating
new rituals, such as an icebreakers ceremony in a new residential care
facility; and rituals for building community.
"Ritual is a container
or vessel for these experiences," Sherman says. "A ritual
enables you to mark an event. It can provide order and clarity during
times of anxiety and stress; it can provide healing, integration, clarity
and framing of an event. It helps us understand the nature of the midlife
adventure, and helps us explore the wisdom of our experiences with life
transitions and transformations."
Implications:
Recognition can take the fear out of trying situations. Rituals can
bring a feeling of having greater control over one’s life through
bringing recognition and creating a more “normal” thus acceptable
atmosphere.