PROBLEM
SOLVING TIPS
We
all can feel confused by problems and wonder if they can be solved.
Well, yes, most of them can! Each problem might be different but thereare
basic ways to approach any problem that make it easier to unravel and
probably even resolve.
- RECOGNIZE
THE PROBLEM. Sounds so basic, but too often is missed because
we tend to overestimate the dilem
ma.
Ask yourself, "Why is this a problem?" Separate issues of
choice (you prefer to solve it) from issues of need (you must solve
it). Eliminate the panic factor!
- EXPLORE
IT. Don't make assumptions-get
real information. Don't keep it a secret-talk with others and gain
perspective. Keep details relevant to the issue. Guess how you might
approach it. Does it break down into smaller and more manageable tasks?
How imperfect can the solution be and still be a good solution? Is
the problem another person? Or is it you? Maybe your behavior or your
attitude? A rule? An expectation? Self-imposed? Might it resolve itself?
Allow yourself to consider all possibilities. Is it really YOUR problem?
Ask yourself: "If this, then
" Exactly what outcome
do you want? What might be unanticipated outcomes?
- DECIDE
IF YOU WANT TO WORK WITH IT. Studies indicate the most
important part of problem
solving
is feeling confident you can and will solve the problem. You must
be willing to devote your time and energy to the problem and the solution,
and you need to be willing to maybe feel uncomfortable while doing
so. After all, if it were easy it wouldn't be a problem!
- MAKE
A PLAN, THEN DO IT. Set your goal. Prioritize. Be organized.
Anticipate some trial and error. Keep assessing your plan: is it working?
If not, do something different. Keep integrating new information as
you gain it. Remember to keep details relevant to the issue. Get help
if you need it.
- LOOK
BACK AND REVISE FOR NEXT TIME. Then move on. You may not
have the exact same problem again (although you may!), but it's likely
you have gained good information and experience through your problem
solving journey. Use it!
Written by Joyce Woodford
Kansas State University Counseling Services, Manhattan, KS © 2001